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1302 Seventh Street
Wilson, OK 73463
Phone: (580) 668-2426
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Tommie McCarty

Tommie Faye McCarty (Kilcrease)

Tuesday, June 18th, 1946 - Monday, April 26th, 2021
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Healdton- Graveside service for Tommie Faye (Kilcrease) McCarty,74 of Healdton are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Saturday, May 1, 2021 at Graham Cemetery with Rev. Paul Dean Martin officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Healdton.

Tommie was born June 18, 1946 in Duncan to the late Mr. John Marion Kilcrease and Mrs. Mary Vadna(Johnson) Kilcrease. She departed from this life on Monday, April 26, 2021 in Ardmore, OK.

Tommie was raised in Graham where she attended school until graduating High School. She married Mr. Ron Eaves and they were blessed with two children, R.D. and Mary. Later in life, Tommie married Lynn McCarty and after some time was accompanied by Clarence "Clem" Ollis until his passing. She worked at Michelin for over 30 years, retiring as a supervisor Tire Building department. Tommie could grow anything, she enjoyed doing crafts, fishing, cooking a good brisket, Sudoku, and crossword puzzles. She was willing to help someone and had a heart of gold.

Preceding her in death were her parents; daughter, Mary Francis Chaffee on 12/18/2011; brothers, Billy and Kenny Kilcrease and a grandson, Michael Paul Hughes.

Tommie is survived by her son, R.D. Eaves and wife Christina of Healdton; sister, Johnnie Fletcher and husband Kenneth of Graham; brothers, Joe Lee Kilcrease and wife Angie of Pruitt City and Max Ray Kilcrease and wife Wendy of Drumright; grandchildren, Angela, Amber, Ethen and Isiac; great grandchildren, Desaray, Dominik, Sarah, Lexi, Eian and Cameron "Jimmy"; adopted grandchildren, Rebel, Ryott, and Raven Staples; numerous other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Ray Fletcher, Chris Fletcher, Darrell Fletcher, Isiac Eaves, Ethen Eaves and Danny Morrow.

Visitation will be held from 6:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M. Friday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel at Healdton.

The family would like to express a special thanks to Danny and Cassie Morrow for their kind felt help throughout the years.

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  • Visitation

    Friday, April 30th, 2021 | 6:00pm - 8:00pm
    Friday, April 30th, 2021 6:00pm - 8:00pm
    Alexander Gray Funeral Home - Healdton
    65 Golf Course Street
    HEALDTON, OK 73438
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  • Service

    Saturday, May 1st, 2021 | 2:00pm
    Saturday, May 1st, 2021 2:00pm
    Graham Cemetery in Graham, OK
    GRAHAM, OK 73437
    Rev. Paul Dean Martin
  • Interment

    Graham Cemetery in Graham, OK
    GRAHAM, OK 73437


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Cassie Morrow

Posted at 09:51am
My sweet sweet friend, you made such an impact in my life in such a short time. I already miss you so much. Thank you for the kindness you have shown to me, for listening when I needed an ear, for the advice and wisdom you so freely shared to me. Rest easy my friend, you deserve peace and comfort.
Love, Cassie

Sharon Kocsis

Posted at 04:30pm
Our deepest sympathy. Love, Thomas, Sharon, JD and Kaylan
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So very sorry that Tommie is gone. Thinking of you all. Judith Gear Sexton

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We were very blessed to have known aunt Tommie. She never treated anyone like a stranger.
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